Do you really want to talk to your Pastor about Sex?
Many couples are required by their church group to attend premarital counseling before getting married. Most churches are flexible about the premarital counseling site you attend. Ultimately, premarital counseling is your choice. As a result, I commonly get couples who want to talk about sex as part of their premarital counseling but cringe at the idea of talking about sex with a pastor.
A second set of couples I work with are getting married for the second time and want to make things right going forward. Divorce sucks and it is expensive! No one wants to go through that again! As a result, you may wonder what needs to happen to ensure your relationship stays strong and healthy. Are you bringing in old mistakes to the new relationship? You likely have some old habits you need to unlearn.
A final set of couples or individuals are interested in getting Adult Sex Education in the form of a Bachelorette Party, Birthday Party or Anniversary Party. In these parties, your Sex Therapist will teach you a set of skills such as how to give a blow job, how to perform oral sex, or how to slow down your sexual experiences with Tantric Sex. These are fun parties in which the therapist will talk and teach how to do various sexual techniques. Read below to learn more.
Standard Premarital Package
Session 1: Assessment and Treatment Planning-Learn about couple’s goals, assess for potential issues, and create a customized treatment plan.
Session 2: Choosing to Love-Couples learn cover a therapist updated version of the Love Languages. Spoiler Alert! You need to show and receive love using all 5 languages for a healthy marriage (and there are more than 5 love languages).
Session 3: Learning to Listen-Couples learn about differences in their communication styles so they can be more validating partners.
Session 4: Respectful Conflict Resolution Skills-Couples learn how to talk productively when they disagree with each other. It's going to happen.
Session 5: Keeping the Spark Alive-Couples learn specific ideas for keeping the spark alive in their relationship long term.
Optional Add-On Sessions: Finances, Parenting and Co-Parenting, Different Religious Values, More Sex Sessions, Division of Household Chores, and anything else you want to discuss. You can also choose to continue with standard therapy sessions if there is a specific problem you need to address.
Cost for this package is $250 per session. If you choose the basic 5 session package, that costs $1250 total. Each additional session is priced at $250 per 60 min session.
Bachelorette Party-Adult Sex Education Package
Many brides are opting to do a sexy education party for their Bachelorette Party. People have also opted for this package for birthday parties and anniversary parties. Brides to Be and their friends can choose from a menu of options. Learn from a certified sex therapist how to do fun sexy things with your partner. You are getting married and sex is an important part of a healthy marriage. These parties are incredibly fun and teach a variety of sex education skills. You can pick one theme, but most parties offer a mix of options. You provide the location (typically a hotel room or someone's house). These are talk therapy demonstrations. Your therapist may bring tools such as candy or icicle penises, a vulva puppet, or edible vulvas that can be used for practice. Clothes on, judgments off!
Blow Job Party-In this party style, the therapist brings some phallic edible penises and teaches blow job techniques. Many times the girls in the party offer their ideas as well.
Oral Sex Party-This party is more blended and shows attendees how to give blow jobs and how to teach your partner to go down on you.
Tantric Sex Party-This party shows attendees how to take sexy time slow and incorporate a more whole body experience. Sex is about more than your genitals.
Cost for this Party is $1000 for 90 mins with up to 10 guests. Fees are subject to change to accomodate bigger groups.