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When a spouse or partner cheats, you first have to decide if the relationship is worth salvaging. In many cases, it is. Most people share a great portion of their lives together including parenting, extended families, friends, finances and even business partnerships. When you are in crisis, you need to pick a therapist who can honestly guide you in the best decisions to make during this crisis. You don’t want a passive therapist who will sit there and not give any suggestions of feedback for how to fix things. Check out this video to learn more about what you should look for in a helpful therapist.

After someone has an affair, the hurt partner often struggles to restart sex. They can have PTSD like flash backs thinking about their partner being with another person. When this happens, couples need a strategy for connecting as a team. In this video, I share some helpful tips for restarting a sex life after broken trust. For those of you interested, check out my book, “Helping Couples Overcome Infidelity: A Therapist’s Manual,” available on Amazon for purchase.