Sex Tips

How I Wish People Talked About Oral Sex

Angela Skurtu, Marriage and Sex Therapist, describes ways people can approach oral sex that can make it more appealing. A lot of people learn about oral sex through porn. As a result, their oral sex experience ends up being painful, uncomfortable, or even demeaning. In this video, Angela describes ways to shift oral sex so it is fun and pleasurable for all parties involved.

How I Wish People Talked About Oral Sex Read More »

A Return to Sensate Focus

Back by popular demand, I thought I would repost this sensate focus video. Sensate focus is a version of mindfulness or present oriented sex. Most people can get lost in their heads here and there. Some people really struggle with this problem during sex. In the following video, I describe how to get out of your head and get lost in the moment. When I ask clients about their best sexual experiences, they all say the same thing, “I was thinking of nothing.” The reason for this is that they are fully enjoying their senses-touch, taste, smell, hearing, sight. Learn more from this video how to get lost in your own sexual experience.

A Return to Sensate Focus Read More »

Scroll to Top