Infidelity and Affairs

The number one question most people ask after an affair is, “Can I ever trust them again?” The answer is both a yes and a no. You will never quite trust them the way you once did, but that doesn’t mean you can’t build some trust. It depends on how the situation is handled. If your partner is willing to do what it takes to try to make things work, then it will be easier to build trust. However, if your partner expects you to just trust them blindly without showing any change in their actions, trust will not grow. Learn more in this video.

When a spouse or partner cheats, you first have to decide if the relationship is worth salvaging. In many cases, it is. Most people share a great portion of their lives together including parenting, extended families, friends, finances and even business partnerships. When you are in crisis, you need to pick a therapist who can honestly guide you in the best decisions to make during this crisis. You don’t want a passive therapist who will sit there and not give any suggestions of feedback for how to fix things. Check out this video to learn more about what you should look for in a helpful therapist.